Hypnosis is all about my words and someone's mind, working together. But over the years, I've found that some words are simply more powerful than others.

I've mentioned before the power of saying, "Good girl." And I've added some oomph to the phrase "Smile for me."

Here's how I found another powerful one.

Women who ask me about hypnosis often say they'd like to use it to remove ... um ... "some inhibitions."

Oh yes? Tell me more, I say. That's a bit of unfair torment. I already know where they're going: They have inhibitions about anal sex and deep throat.

Now as a gentleman, I am happy to help out however I can to make it easier for them to manage both of them. The subconscious generally has fewer inhibitions than the conscious mind, so hypnosis is an ideal method for removing those hurdles.

The first few times this came up, though, I wasn't sure how to proceed.

I knew not to take a negative approach. "Don't gag." "It won't hurt". That's like saying "Don't think of a purple elephant." Hypnotic instructions work best when phrased in the positive. For a while I would say, "Your throat can't care." That was OK, but not really to the point.

By accident, as usual, I hit upon a couple of phrases that really worked well. They can be adapted lightly for use with all, um, holes.

"Your bottom is utterly relaxed. It's sooo hungry."

"Your throat is utterly relaxed. It's sooo hungry."

That seems to be exactly what the body wants to be told.

When I use these over the phone, I usually hear a gasp at the other end. When I use them in person, well, you can imagine. I've seen a very large, rugged dildo disappear smoothly into a formerly nervous backside -- without a sound.

What's your favorite phrase?

Invisible bondage

I was talking to my friend Alice yesterday. She was headed  to the home improvement warehouse for something innocent. But I couldn't resist turning the conversation kinky. I like to call the place Dom Depot. So I rattled off some of the wonderful pervertibles you can find in its aisles, including an amazing variety of rope, chain and shackles.

Alice thought that was silly. After all, she and Shelly are both extremely adept at hypnosis.

"I can use trance to bind her. So we don't need the accessories."

All she does is push her finger against the inside of Shelly's wrist, and Shelly's arm is stuck there, wherever she's put it. Shelly simply can't move, no matter how extreme the torment.

Afterwards, "There's no mess to clean up. All I have to do is say, "release." "

Unless Alice forgets. "I have actually left the room for a bit, and come back, and she asked for the release. I had forgotten to tell her to stop!"

Alice is right. Hypnotic ropes really are a wonderful thing to have handy. 

For instance, last week I was working at my desk, but was watching my friend Lindsey's cam in the corner of my screen. She had her headset on and was talking animatedly with a hot guy she likes. Lindsey has this wonderful habit of leaning back in her chair and clasping her hands behind it, and I could see she was doing that again.

Seizing the opportunity, I typed, "Your hands are tied there behind your chair." I saw her glance at the screen, get a puzzled look, and then realize what had happened. She was immediately smiling and writhing and blushing simultaneously. She really doesn't like to admit how much control I have over her body, but she couldn't do anything about it. I just left her that way long enough for her to wonder how long it would last. I'd made my point.

I have no idea what she told the guy.

Fistings and candle wax

Hi again,

i have missed writing up our adventures and last night was another night of hypno fun. I had a kind of out of body experience last night . We had a night away in a hotel by the sea last night and used our time to try out new ideas.

It is very hard to fist me, my pussy is just too tight, and sometimes refused to stretch any further with 3-4 fingers inside and i am unable to relax enough to allow any other fingers in. I have been with K over 10 years since we were very young and i have probably been fisted 4 times over that period of time. I asked K if he would attempt to fist me while we were away. We were aware that hypnosis would be needed and after tying me up spread eagle on the bed. K whispered in my ear that i was going to watch this happen. He told me to close my eyes and then i heard him tell me to open them. I was stood at the foot of the bed and was watching him leaning over my tied up body talking into my ear. My eyes were closed but i was moaning softly. He constantly talked into my ear describing what he was doing and i could hear him in my ear at the foot of the bed. I watched as he managed to slip his fist inside my pussy gradually finger by finger and at the same time i could feel every manipulation on my body whilst watching him. I could see myself writhing and moaning with the pleasure i was feeling.

After he had allowed me to cum (which was so so intense) i watched him grab some candles and begin to drip wax over my tits until they were covered. This was intense to watch especially as i could feel the heat whilst standing there. He then leaned down and whispered into my ear "close your eyes" which i promptly did. When i was told to open them i was again tied up to the bed with waxy tits.

If your sub is able to do hypnotic illusions then that is definitely one to try. Needless to say not much sleep was had. If you have any questions for either of us feel free to comment or email!

c xxxxx

Our leave of absence

Hi all,
Firstly i haven't had contact with D for a long time, have no idea if anything has happened to him and its partly this lack of communication that has made me reluctant to blog on here. It is D's blog but hopefully he is fine and well and will return to the fold soon.
myself and K have had to deal with relatives passing away, massive work issues, the financial climate and the poor health of our daughter. We have not intended to neglect you dear readers but life has a funny way of biting you on the ass at times.
So what have we been up to? Over the past 3 weeks we have really got back into our bdsm lifestyle and hypnosis is being used again to ensure that everything i experience has intensity turned up to the max. The fave trick of the moment is an old one really, I disappear to my igloo for a while and when i come back my entire body is on fire, whilst out i have been whipped by K and not feeling a thing only to feel the intense heat and pain when i return, that is a pretty cool trick as K likes to go at it hard (and i love it when he does) and there have been times where i have been in the room and talking to him while he does it yet unable to feel a thing! Definitely is something to try with your subs its a mind rush as well as the intensity of the pleasure/pain boundaries.

We have used hypnosis recently for more practical uses rather than sexual, keeping me calm is not an easy task when my world was crumbling around me and hypnosis has enabled me to function without breaking down into tears ever 5 mins or so.

So has any of you incorporated hypnosis into your bdsm play? I'm sure the loyal readers will have tried it and i am interested in what you guys think of it. I have some time off work over the next few weeks so will post regularly and visit to read the comments often. Hopefully we will all hear from D too!
Speak soon
c xxxxx

We are still around

Hi all,

Just a quick note to let you know that we are still around but life has taken some unexpected turns for all of us - myself and K in particular have not had the easiest of rides at the moment...I am working on a blog that should hopefully get published at the weekend and then i hope to make it a more regular thing. Believe me K has had many ideas i have not shared with you yet!

c xxxx

The slightly strange world of erotic hypnosis

I was walking to lunch with some colleagues yesterday when my phone rang. It was my friend c, and she wanted to complain.

She was upset, she said, about the trip to the furniture warehouse store. Did I have any idea what it was like to walk around the store naked? She was so upset, she said.

Only, she didn't sound like she was upset. She sounded like she was just about to purr. Sure enough, she confessed, once her husband, who was with her at the store, assured her that she was in fact clothed, the whole thing had been unbearably erotic. She'd managed to hold off on her spontaneous orgasm until after they left the store. But she hadn't made it to the car before she lost it.

Welcome to the slightly strange (but deeply sexy) world of erotic hypnosis and mind control. I never know when I'm going to get a call like that from c. And she never knows when (or where) I'm going to remove her clothes, give her an orgasm or show up in her bed.

As regular readers know, we haven't reported many new adventures lately. Trust me, it's as frustrating for us as for you all. But for new visitors, I urge you to click deep into the archives and take a look. You may be surprised at the power of a few words from a persuasive and slightly twisted hypnotist. Or you may simply be inspired to try it yourself.

Merry Christmas

Hi All
I can't begin to say how busy and painful the past few weeks have been with work and family commitments along with the rehab on my back injury that is going too slow for my liking and i can't begin to say how sorry i am for not posting sooner.

Truth is i haven't had that many adventures, pain management has the the priority when it has come to hypnosis but that hasn't really helped much. However i had an amazing experience during one of my away times that i wanted to tell you all about. I'm sure you have all read in a previous blog about my amazing hypno present last year and i assume i was sent away so that K and megan can plan something out, i try not to think about it too much. When it comes to Christmas i am like a 3 year old i love it so much so i was sent to be an elf working for Santa! I know it sounds kooky but the hypno places i get to go to open my eyes to a world i have never seen and experiences beyond the realm of dreams. Those of you who are playing with hypnosis i urge you to give your subject a place to go to that will give them an experience they will never forget!

hope to give you more detailed accounts in the new year
Merry Christmas
c x